And two steps back

I should have known it was not that easy. My insurance is denying my PS because there is one that preforms the free trans flap "in network" well that's all and good but I chose "a team." I am so ready to move forward on this. Dates are set, lots of docs have already put in a lot of time. Of course this all comes up on a Fri afternoon, to late to make many phone calls on this. There is a difference between the trans flap and the DIEP. Insurance providers don't quite get the difference. Heck I didn't even understand the difference until I started reading about them. The basic difference is one takes muscle and one does not. I said it before I want a surgeon that can offer me ALL my options and has done hundreds of these procedures. I chose my doctors carefully. My insurance company should not chose them for me. I made sure that the BS was in network before I went any further. I asked about insurance at the PS's office and they said they can work with the insurance co since they are one of the few that do the procedure I want and they aren't on any one's insurance. So I can't check out this new doctor as its now the weekend. I can' t talk to the BS's office about it because its the weekend. I just have to try not to let it eat at me. Much easier said than done.

Fighting this Cancer is hard enough, I really don't want to have to fight the insurance company as well. I just want to be able to relax and get things prepared for the surgery. I want to be on the road to recovery and not have this sitting in front of me. I want it behind me!